Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Miles
New painting
Heres what I have been doing when I am not cooking, cleaning, schooling and chasing 7 kids around with "did you do your home work?, whose dirty socks are these?,etc etc" Grape Jelly
Well with 10 people we are suddenly running into a jelly shortage. We are wiping out nearly 1 pint a day! I got a good deal on grapes so I bought a bushel. Elanee and I started the process of juicing the grapes on Sunday.
Here the cheese cloth is pinned over my giant bowl letting the juice flow through. Looks like this one bushel will yield about 30 pints of jelly.Cheese Tour
This last weekend I took Vayda and Maya Rae and went on a Cheese tour. We hit the farmers market first to try sheep cheese.
Here we are at the goat farm enjoying goat cheese and hot cider.




We learned how cow cheese is made and sampled that too.
Here we are in the cooler with LOTS of cheese.
Vayda just LOVES cows and cheese!!!!The new house

Then theres the school work for Maya all day.
And, Elanee and Ben on the job hunt. The two of them have been working together to get collect applications every day.
-Update: Elanee is now working for Subway and Ben has a part time position doing yard clean up.
Moving
It ened up that we were unable to sell our house outright in 'this market'. The 3 couple who tried could not get a mortgage because the house was not painted. Thats right.....painted. Not the lack or gutters or soffets or, or, or.....no- paint. Just cannot buy ugly folks.
So....we took a leap and did a Lease to Own with a nice couple from very upstate NY. The process of moving is H-E-double hockey sticks as we all know. I am grateful that it is over now.We down sized immensely. We have 3 weekends of yard sales and donated the rest. We sold all kinds of big things too like our white van.
We took only the bare necessities with us to the new house and the rest went into storage. Just one 10x15 unit held everything we owned. Thats amazing! We went back to the house night after night to clean. Finally it was all done and the new folks moved two weeks ago with all their cows, goats, horses, dogs and fowl.Back to school
Javari
Javari !
The momma and her boys.
Angelica lookin good.


Javari is annoyed because Aunt Vayda pinned him down for this picture.


Reading a book with Aunt Elanee.
and that toothless smile :)
Loving his mommy!

We had such a nice day with this busy, happy boy :)Man do we miss these guys!
Jayden Micheal Mylonez
While in Rhode Island we got to meet Jayden.
Jayden is Javari's little brother.
While Heather was getting ready for her party, I drove to Mass and picked up Angelica, Javari and Jayden. We came back to Heathers where we all hung out and enjoyed the company.
Elanee and her new nephew.


Heres Jayden in the little outfit that Vayda bought for him.
Mommy Angelica, Maya Rae and Jayden.

This is the moment I fell in love with this little guy. :)

Heather and I enjoyed soaking up some baby time! :)
Gotta love babies.Jayden is such a sweetie.
Heather celebrates life!
This past year was full of achievement for Heather so she rightfully decided to through a "Celebrate Life" party.
A bunch of people came to hang out, eat, do kareoki,
This was the light show :)....
And- we broke (or attempted to break in my case) boards. Heather got right up there and smashed through. Elanee and Vayda did too. Very empowering.
Great party!Harry's first gallery exhibit
At the end of August the girls and I headed to Rhode Island to visit Heather and see Harry's first gallery exhibit. He was the youngest artist ever to be on display at the Warwich Museum of Art. The boy rocks!

Tuesday, August 18, 2009
May & Jeff's wedding
On Sunday this weekend we attended a wedding. Well actually we got stuck in traffic and missed the ceremony. We did make it for the reception though.
May and Jeff are Baha'is in Ithaca and family friends.
The reception was fun with great food, friends and music. We were so happy to see the happy couple. What a lovely way to spend the afternoon. May did such a wonderful job with the decorations and design. Plus- she used all compostable plates, forks and cups. Awesome. Definitely the "greenest" wedding I have ever attended....and beautiful. LOVED IT! ;)
Elanee in Pleasantville
This weekend was a big weekend. Jody, Vayda, Maya Rae and I all piled into the ricky-ticky car and drove down state to Pleasantville.
The drive was safe and good butSOOOOOOO HOOOOOOTTTT!
We would have taken my car but after the fender bender of a few weeks ago we cannot open the front passenger door. Jodys car is in good working order but unlike mine has no air conditioning. Woooo! Flipping HOT HOT HOT!! We were a melted wind blown wreck!
The reason we made the trip was to see Elanee perform in "Annie Get Your Gun"with the Mount Pleasant Community Theater group.
Grandma Rose (Jodys step mom) and Grand-daddy Mac (Jodys dad)
They gave her dance lessons, acting lessons, voice lessons and a role in the production.
Of course, Elanee was de-lighted to take advantage of these wonderful gifts.
Saturday night's performance was the closing act. The music was wonderful and the acting was great. Top quality stuff. And- who knew....Elanee can really dance a jig!
At the end Rose got up front and said her Thank Yous to all of the actors and support people. We followed Rose, Mac, Elanee and the rest of the crowd to their cast party. That got late for Maya Rae who was falling asleep at the table so we had to scootch out but it was fun.Good stuff.
Thanks to Mac and Rose for giving Elanee such a wonderfully fun and educational experience!
Monday, July 27, 2009
Wa- Freakin- Hoo !I have 3 pieces of art in the Art Barn at the Grassroots Festival.
This is my first gallery showing since 1988. Wow. I am psyched!
See the other pieces and read about it on my art blog...Friday, July 17, 2009
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Potty Training Nicholas
My brother and sister in law were having a slow go at potty training their son (my nephew) Nicholas so I offered to take on the job. I said give me the munchkin for 5 days and I will have the deed done.
Thats exactly what happened. Nick started coming here last Monday from 10-5ish. It must have been very odd for him when Aunt Carrie told him how "at Aunt Carries house we dont use diapers. We use underwear"... and proceeded to remove the pull up and introduce him to the potty seat I bought him. On day one he peed in the potty 16 min after he got here. Shortly after that he wet himself...to his great surprise! He had never experienced what happens when you pee but you dont have a pull up on. Wow. Wet to the feet. He peed one more time on the potty that day.
There is lots and lots of time to fill between potty stops so we did lots of fun stuff too. For lunch I laid out all kinds of options and let him pick.


Every day that he was here he spent at least some time in the sand box. He likes that.
There was time for outside water play of course.
And- all preschoolers are enchanted with time in the kitchen sink so he did lots of that too.
Day two brought 7 wet pairs of big boy underwear. Ugh for me but great for him. He learned that he didnt like being wet at all.
Maya Rae spent a ton of time playing with Nick over these 5 days. She played bobble heads, Mr. Potato Head, dolls, cars, colored, played outside, ETC. Here she is encouraging Nick to play with our instruments.
Nick liked this.
Here he is marching along in his undies. Cute.
He enjoyed the guitar.
His favorite was the recorder. SQUEAKKKK!!! LOL. 
By day three he stayed dry all day long! 3 days is all it takes. Days 4 & 5 were just practice for what he learned. His mom, dad and grandparents all did SOOO well as well. Everyone had to be consistent to help Nick succeed. AND HE DID!
Congratulations Nicholas! You're a big boy now :)Biking in Rochester
Jody has been meaning to take me to this bike path in Rochester for about 2 yrs. Finally, on the 5th Maya, Jody and I headed out.
We biked along the Erie canal for about 12 miles. It was very scenic.
We got really close to a couple of deer and saw ground hogs close up.


We did lots of peddling and some exploring. Fun Stuff! Beautiful day!
Kids Leaving
The day after the Graduation party Ben and Elanee left with Daniel. Elanee was delivered to Grand-daddy and Grandma Rose's house where she is taking dance, voice and theater lessons and acting in their play. Ben went all the way to Virginia with Dan where he is taking it easy for the summer and figuring out what he is going to do in the fall. Hes got big plans to bike out to Lyndes in Indiana. We are rootin for him.Day Star Ridge
On the 4th of July Jody, Vayda, Maya Rae and I went down to Day Star Ridge for a 

The kids played with old friends and the grown ups visited. There were about 25 people or so. Though it was July it was cooolddd. brrr. So we spent the day pretty bundled up.
I love this fire pit and at some point I intend to copy it. :)
The folks on the Day Star committee have worked hard to make the camp grounds beautiful. I noticed many new plantings and the guys were working hard, laying the ground for a prayer gazebo.
Aaron and Shelley came too. Nice to see them again so soon after the recent grad party. Jody borrowed Aarons bike and went for a spin.
We chose not to camp overnight because I didnt feel like packing up all the gear but we did stay late into the evening. We got to see several fire work shows in varied directions around the hill. We had a great day.Graduation Party for 2
The day after Bens graduation we held a duel grad party for Ben and Elanee.
We had lots of people come out to support the kids' accomplishments.Helen, Judy, Carrie and her boys Trevor and Jace were here.







The VanVleets, Meads, Brinn-Beers, Vests & Bauders (and many more) came and visited.

Everyone left words of wisdom for Elanee and Ben along with generous gifts.
Greg and Nick had fun.
A nice bonus was having the 3 boys all together. Maya Made Dolls
Maya Rae has beeb busy busy making dolls from recycled socks and scrap fabric. Here are some shots of her creations.




During a sleep over recently she taught her friend, Alexandra, to make one for herself. They had so much fun Alexandra came over again to make a husband doll for her first doll.
Chickens Again
On this day she waltzed right on into the kitchen and perched on the window cill.
Maya encouraged her back outside.
There she goes.
This is a scene I saw when I pulled in one day. I think this is cool.Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Anniversay Dinner
Jody and I hit 12 yrs of marriage on June 21.
Jody worked very hard and planned a lovely dinner on a boat in Watkins Glenn.Unfortunately, I got a call the day before our date. The restaurant cancelled our dinner.
I was soooo bummed for Jody because he worked so hard to create a nice plan for the two of us.

Before he knew what happened I scrambled and got a replacement boat in Ithaca. I thought this was a great idea :) I saved the day. Weeeelllllll~
About 3 minutes after I walked onto the boat I got sea sick. It sucked bad!!! I absolutely hated every single second of it.
I wanted to barf the entire time! The place was a stinkin dump! The food was bad! Ick Ick Ick.
Poor Jody! I was a lousy date. Jody was cool and suggested a movie. That was the real save to our date. :)Thursday, June 18, 2009
Vayda got herself a J-O-B !
Strawberry season begins
Well we have a pretty nice strawberry crop this year. Maya Rae and I went out and spent a few hours picking the first bunch. The girls all took the tops off, washed them and bagged um up. They are in the freezer waiting for me to get around to making jam. We managed to bring in about two gallons. Good start. Chicken came for a visit

Thursday, June 11, 2009
Holy CRAP- Elanee is 17!!!

Funny Bunny
Fay- thats Vaydas rat- was getting beat up by Bindy- thats Vaydas newer rat- so we moved her in with Harvey. Wasnt sure how that would go but it turns out they really get along great.
I was walking by the cage the other day when I discoved the pair cuddled up. Or- maybe it was Harvey was wear Fay as a scarf. I am not sure. Either way, it was super cute so I snapped some shots to show you :)Sunday at the Ithaca Festival

I was going so I got the girls on board and we all went. They brought their friend, Abby.
Maya Rae got her face painted.
Vayda and Abby bought cute little bikers on a stick.
I was impressed by all the bikes!
We ate great food and did alot of people watching.
We rode the T-Cat bus to and from our car. That was novel for us all. We had a great time at the festival!
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
Back to camp
After the baby shower I returned home and finished packing the car with all the stuff we didn't bring on the bikes. We needed more stuff because we were bring Saige and Maya Rae for an overnight stay. We spent some time packing more bedding, food, clothes and bikes. Baby Shower
At 10 am Ben drove to the camp site and collected me. I had to get home and get the girls so we could go to our cousin, Jenna's, baby shower at noon.
We had a really nice time. We all agreed that this was a great shower. There were a few games like baby bingo that the girls got into. The cake was adorable. Food was great. Company was lovely. 
Jenna looked fabulous!
The shower took place at Seneca Lake park in a shelter by the water park. It was a beautiful day for it too.
Jenna received sooooooo many wonderful things for her baby boy (who is due in July). We watched her unwrap gifts for an hour or more when we had to scoot. Jody was expecting me back at the camp site at 4 and I still had more packing to do. Hugs to all and off we went. Camping
This is me sleeping in our camping chairs. If it doesn't look to comfy- its not. However, it was way more comfortable then the sleep we got all night. Biking to Watkins Glen
This is us 6 miles up the road. I chilled in the shade while Jody made a few adjustments to the trailer arm. There was about 100 lbs of stuff to drag.
This aint a pretty picture :( This is me looking like hell after climbing some seemingly endless hills. I was on the edge of tears and felt just how I looked. 10 miles in.
Monday, May 25, 2009
Hiking at Tauganic
On Sunday after our NYC bike trip we slept in. When we got up we had nothing going on so we scooped up the willing kids and went to Tauganic for a hike.

I informed the girls that they could did into their picnic lunch when they got to the bridge. This kept them motivated for a while.
Bench break.....Ahhhhh.
The night before Saige slept over and this is the little art project that the girlies got into. :)
After an hour of uphill we made it to the bridge. We had never gone this way before so we were so surprised and excited to see another waterfall tucked back there.

Back down the other side was easier though we started to get into the "I stubbed this and I broke that" grumbles of little girls who had a fun night of sleep over parties but very little sleep.
This led to daddy having a heavier load to carry.
Look at these crazy strong people just taring the forest up!(ok- it was already bent..lol)
Bikin in NYC with Jody
Lately I have been just crazy running here and there and as a result Jody and I have had very little time together. So, last weekend Jody and I took a Swarthout Coach to New York City.
The reason we went to was to bike along the Hudson River. Because Jody drives for Swarthout on the weekends he often takes this route while waiting for the passengers to return to the bus.
Dorky pic.
The bus parked along 52nd street- ish. We biked along the water till we got to the George Washington Bridge and the "Little Red Light House".
Jody saw this light house when he was in nursery school and has spoken of it often over the years. Its not all that little but in comparison to the bridge its itty bitty.
Heres the history of the light house. I think if you click on the image you should be able to
On our way down the river I saw this fruit stand. When we were ready or lunch we came back here. It didnt look like much from the outside but when we chained out bikes and stepped inside it was a huge store tucked under a bridge. It was cool. That was one thing that I noticed about the city...how every little noock and cranny was used for something or another.
We got our wraps, fruit and chips and sat the waters edge.
As we munched, we watched every vehicle imaginable pass by us. Planes, ships, boats, cars, trucks, trains, motorcycles, bikes, scooters, skates, strollers, ETC ETC ETC!It was relentlessly noisy but fun to watch.
Potty stop. The play grounds were full of children and the restrooms were from the 40s I think. I could see why people would love it in the city (though its not my thang). You can see the generations of tradition in every structure.
In all we biked 13 miles.After the ride we put our bikes back under the bus and got changed.
We walked for a while with no real goal and ended up in the middle of a block party. It was all food, food, food and a few vendors selling 'stuff'. Just the amount of people kept me interested.

We walked until we reached Central Park. I was very sick of walking when I saw a row of bike rickshaws. Jody and I hired a nice guy named Mike to drive us around the park.

Now this is the way to travel!!!
As he drove us around, Mike gave us a tour. "This is this- that is that" etc. It was cool. I had no idea how little I knew about this park. Honestly I didnt understand what the big ol deal was with Central Park. "So big deal its a bunch of grass in the middle of a city"..... OOOHHHHH- NOOOOWWW I get it!!!! Its freakin amazing. Really beautiful! So much to see. So much going on. LOVELY!!!

After an hour long ride we were done. That was great time. You could come to NYC and spend an entire day just exploring Central Park. Who knew !?!
After our ride we went to look for an Indian restaurant. Before we found one we came across this Cuban place. Good enough. Nice little place. We ate like pigs. We were sooooo hungry! Good stuff. Then we jumped back on the bus and 6 hrs later we were in Ithaca, then home.Good times!
Tuesday, May 05, 2009
Home again jiggidy jog
Norman Rockwell Museum
On the way to RI Elanee had spotted a sign for the Norman Rockwell Museum so we decided to Google it when we go to Heathers. We did so and so on Monday morning when we left we drove directly there.
This is our proof that we went. Elanee is holding the camera. It took several tries to get all our fat heads in the shot. :)
Karaoki at Heathers

But- guess what I found out? That crap is FUN!!!! LOL.
We got way into it. As a matter of fact...after several songs we ran upstairs and changed into more appropriate clothing...for pop stars of course. So- yes- I am saying we played dress up....lol. 
Elanee and Madison video taped us singing and dancing. Heather is going to put them on YouTube so we can be totally humiliated. Now- thats real fun!
Art lesson with Harry
Harry (my friend Heathers son) is a flippin amazing artist! I mean for real. Like we are coming to believe that he is the reincarnation of Normal Rockwell or something :) The kid rocks.
After only a short time I could see he was on his way with shading and blending. I CANNOT wait to see what he does with this new medium. You can see Harrys are on his blog at Visiting Angelica & Javari

Vayda & her nephew, Javari.
Practicing rasberries :)
Not much gets cuter than that face.
Javari really wanted Vaydas lunch.
John (daddy) & Javari.
Elanee and J man.
Again this time it was SO wonderful seeing Angelica and Javari and John too. We are all wishing we could be closer so we could see each other much more often.
Ben goes to the Prom!
While the girls and I were off to Rhode Island, Ben was home with Jody getting ready for the prom. The girls were taking bets on if Ben would actually go but then he surprised us all and said he would. Wow. He went out and picked out a tux and everything. We think he made a great choice. He brought his friend and classmate, Julia. They had their senior prom at the Geneva Country Club. Ben was voted 2nd runner up for Prom King. He said he had a great time. When the girls and I got back we were soooooooo happy Jody had caught the moment on 'film'.
He looked all handsome ;)Its the freakin Dalai Lama !
He presented an introduction to Buddhism in the morning then after a long lunch break he spoke on the path to peace and happiness.Art booth at the Farmers Market
On Sat April 25 I went to a meeting in Ithaca about "exploring directions for the arts in downtown Ithaca". I went because I have been interested in getting some of my work involved in 'gallery night'. I called for info about this and was invited to the meeting.
At this meeting I was asked to man the booth at the Farmers market the following day. So- I did and I brought Vayda too. We talked to tons of people, learned about a charter school for Vayda and an Eco Village for mommy.
I joined this and signed up for that and and we ate rockin Cambodian food. It was a great day. I am SOOOO glad I said 'Yes'.
This is the watercolor I did for the event.A visit in Virginia
After we left South Carolina we headed up and swung over to see Jodys side of the family.
Grams, Judy, Rae, Cameron & Mac were all great hosts.
We visited all evening then the next day they took us outside to hike up their back yard mountain.
Grams had worked her tail off clearing numerous trails up and down...
and over to the pond.
We had a great time
and lots of visiting in. We talked long about the possibility of moving to VA but after Jody and I discussed it further we came to the conclusion that though its sooooo nice there and we'd love to be closer to that side of the family, he doesn't want to have to switch jobs. So- NY we'll stay I guess. Maybe we are destined to suffer a million winters.
Anyway- we have a GREAT visit!!! Lots of fun. We left at about 9pm and were home and on the couch by 8 am the next morning :) GREAT STUFF!!!!!Crocodile Park
We got to see crocks sunning on little islands along with oysters and cool birds and trees.
Off we go to DC !
Well since I have been back for Tony Robbins I have been alot my adventurous. I decided to drive down to South Carolina to visit with family friends.....but first why not stop in Washington DC and see the zoo?
Thats just what the girls and I did. We took off on a Thurs afternoon and landed in DC at 1 am. Now we booked a Motel 6 so we had a place to land but lets just say it was a little on the totally scanky side...ick. Regardless, we survived the night and woke in the morning to a sunny city.
We made it to the zoo with little fuss but the parking was full so we were sent to find a Mariot to park at. That took some time. I got a little turned around even with the help of Jodys lovely, wonderful, fabulous gift....a new GPS!!! The thing rocks!
We did finally get parked and we walked to the zoo. Then we walked around the zoo. We made sure to see all of our favorites and of course the stars of the show there...the Pandas.
We spent several hours and had a great time. We all enjoyed the zoo. It seemed they really made an effort to make their animals happy with roomy housing. We were very happy and impressed with the elephant habitat they were building.
After we left the zoo we walked downtown and visited a little Indian shop Vayda had spotted while we were turned around. She bought a skirt and a CD. Elanee found a ring for herself. Vayda goes to RI
On a whim on Sunday morning when Heather was leaving to go back to RI- she said "Hey give me one of your kids". So I picked Vayda....who needed to get outa here for a while....time to shake things up.
So she packed a bag and ran off to RI with Heather and her kids. They all had a great time hanging for a full week.
These pics are off Vayda as she shadows Heather boss at the graphic design company sheworks for. This was an awesome opportunity for Vayda.
And- she looks so mature working in an office like this. :)Out to dinner with Heather
After we dropped the girls at the prom, Heather and I went out to dinner in Canandaigua.

Pretty Prom Goers!
Here is Elanee all 'gussied up' (as she likes to say) and ready to go to the prom with her BFF, Mollie. Isn't Elanee pretty here. Everyone thinks she looks just like my mother.
She and Mollie exchanged corsages.
Pretty girls.
MySpace face girls....yikes!
Mollie and her mom, Bobbie.
Elanee and I.
Elanee and her make up artist.
After much fuss and getting the girls and all their many layers of fluff through the sprinkles we (my friend Heather and I) stuffed them in the car and got them to the Bellhurst Castle for the big event.Vayda turns 15 !!!
Vayda was proud of her "ugly cake". It had candy bars on top and was really good!!! MMMM
Saige's B-day was the day before Vayda's so we honored Saige with her own candles on the cake and a round of "Happy Birthday to you". Everyone had a great time :)Monday, March 23, 2009
A kind Naw-Ruz greeting
Saturday, March 21, 2009
Video of my TR weekend
Friday, March 20, 2009
Life after Tony Robbins
Well I am back from Tony Robbins and back into the swing of family life. I'd like to say that I am taking all of my newly empowered energy and rockin my families world but- not so much. Instead, I have been sick. We have gotton out for a few walks though. Yesterday, the girlies and I went out to Willard again and walked down by the lake.
I am seriously grateful for spring! :) Yeah spring!!!
As we left for our walk we say little tulips and daffodils popping up :) Yeah spring!!! (again)
We had a decent walk. Maya grumbled that her hands were vibrating off from using her scooter and its always a crap shoot when you drag teens out like this....but all in all it was a nice time :)
Holy Sh** I walked on fire!!!
Here I am on the first day of the UPW- Tony Robbins- event!
The 4 day event started at 1pm (on the first day) and went till about 11pm. Towards the end of the this day 2900 people walked across 22 beds (2'x12') of hot coals. You can go to UTube for videos of the fire walk. The coals range in temp from 1200-2000 degrees. I have to say, I wasnt scared at all untill I saw those coals!!! Yikes! I was totally freaked out. I thought for sure I couldnt do it. I really paniced.
Finally, I took a deep breath, got into 'state' as we had been taught and took that first step. I felt my right foot touch the coals then I didnt see, hear or feel anything untill I felt ice water on my bare feet. (Above is a shot of my foot with 'hot spots' after the fire walk...then there is a shot of some of the people hobbling up from the parking garage after the walk)
After the walk, I cried....scarry stuff man! But its unexplainably empowering too. Now I can prowdly proclaim that I am a fire walker :)
We arrive in NJ for Tony Robbins!
On the weekend of the 8th Heather came out to my house and collected my butt. She brought me back to Rhode Island to hang with her for a few days. On Wed morning we took off to New Jersey for our long awaited for Tony Robbins UPW (Unleash the Power Within) conference.
Friday, March 06, 2009
A walk in Willard
We went to Willard for an easy- basically flat- walk.
Elanee was a bit of an Emo-Kid. She wasn't feeling her best due to the Fast and was a little on the moody side. I had hoped the sun and movement would perk her up....not so much.
Regardless... Vayda, Maya Rae and I had fun.
Maya is ALWAYS up for a good hike.
Vayda is ALWAYS ready to play with the camera :)


I really enjoyed the walk. I think we did about 3-ish + miles. Good start for the season.
Monday, March 02, 2009
Time for the Fast
The Nortons are Fasting. Ayyam-i-Ha party in Ithaca
We visited while the children's did crafts.
Then we all gathered together for prayers, songs and devotions.
After devotions we visited some more while we enjoyed a nice pot luck lunch.It was a lovely celebration with lots of Baha'is, seekers and friends.
Saturday with Heather
On Saturday Heather and I ditched the munchkins and headed out to spend some time together. We went all my favorite little Amish shops and bought this and that. Mostly groceries in my case. Then we went to Geneva to hit Mother Earth grocery (no poppin in to the tattoo parlor this time though). After that we walked up the way and stopped into a little coffee shop where Heather got her favorite...Chi Tea Latte and I got mine...a Mocha Freeze. We chilled and chatted then before getting back to the car we explored a little Antique shop. Nice time.
Wegmans with Heather
After the blasting Ayyam-i-Ha party Heather and I wanted more fun. We would have loved to go dancing or something like that. BUT- being that we are OLD (and don't think we fit in well with the 20 something bar crowd-ick) and neither of us drinks- the options for places to hang out are pretty limited in Geneva.
So- we did what we used to do when we were too young to hang with the 20 something crowd and didn't drink...... We went to Wegmans in the middle of the night...dur!
Of course these days we went with cloth bags in hand and hung out in the organic isle. lolWild and Crazy man!
Dancing Ayyam-i-Ha away!
After eating and chatting, we cleaned up the toys Nicholas and Kali were playing with and created a dance floor out of our family room.
We popped in a CD of 80's dance tunes and went to it. I got the little kids rockin then guilted Vayda to join us. (to entice the teens)
Harry played the DJ :)
The little kids had a blast. Nicholas thought this was THE BEST!
Even Kali got into the groove.
After the younger bunch had their fill and the grown ups moved to neighboring rooms to talk over the blasting music, the teens just ROCKED THE HOUSE!
Jody and I were concerned for the floor- and book cases- as the place was literally bouncing....but it seems the house held together just fine! Totally Awesome stuff!!!Ayyam-i-Ha Party success!
On Friday evening we held an Ayyam-i-Ha party pot luck dinner.
Heather and her children came all the way from Rhode Island for the party. Heather is teaching her kids about each of the major religions at home and thought the Ayyam-i-Ha weekend would be a great way to teach them about the Baha'i Faith. (I will tell ya right now...those kids had a blast!..lol)
We had a great turn out....including our neighbor Tina and friends Terry,Phil and Bobbi.

Shampsi
and Kali came from Ithaca (Baha'i friends) and Shelley and Aaron (my daughter in law & step son) came from Syracuse.
Elanee and Vayda had several friends come....
Including Mollie, Emily, Valery, Abby, Victoria...
Ravyn, David & Daniel.
Maya Rae and Carrie Sue (named after me....brag) were psyched to have time together!
I was THRILLED that my brother, Greg, and nephew, Nick, came too ;)
Everyone brought great food and we ate, hung out and chatted.
Friday, February 27, 2009
What is Ayyam-i-Ha Anyway???
Baha'is in more than 200 countries and territories are celebrating a four-day festival involving hospitality, gift giving, charity and social gatherings.The festival, which runs from the evening of 25 February until sunset on 1 March, serves as a spiritual preparation for a fast during the last month of the Baha'is calendar, which begins on March 2 and ends on March 20.Celebrations of Ayyam-i-Ha, as the festival is called, are taking different forms in different locations. In Singapore, for example, Baha'is are observing Ayyam-i-Ha with a blood donation drive and a picnic for families in a beachside park.In Hungary, Baha'is plan to celebrate the festival with a musical program and a costume party for children in the Hungarian Culture Foundation building in Budapest.In Milford, New Hampshire, in the United States, the Baha'is have invited friends and neighbors to join them for devotions and then entertainment, which will include learning a local folk dance, watching jugglers, enjoying music, and gift-giving.The Baha'i calendar was initiated by the Bab, the Forerunner of the Faith's Prophet-Founder, Baha'u'llah, who later confirmed it.The calendar comprises 19 months of 19 days. The Ayyam-i-Ha festival falls on the four days (five in a leap year) needed to balance out the solar year of 365 days. The time of this festival is also known as "Intercalary Days".Of this period Baha'u'llah writes: "It behoveth the people of Baha, throughout these days, to provide good cheer for themselves, their kindred and, beyond them, the poor and needy, and with joy and exultation to hail and glorify their Lord, to sing His praise and magnify His Name."During the fast which follows, Baha'is abstain from food and drink between sunrise and sunset as a reminder of the need for individuals to control their material desires. It is seen as a time of meditation and prayer during which Baha'is refresh and reinvigorate themselves spiritually.There are exemptions from the fast for the young and elderly, and for those who are pregnant, ill or who are engaging in heavy work.The fasting period ends with the joyous Naw Ruz (New Year) festival, which begins at sunset on March 20.Tuesday, February 24, 2009
A Sunday Hike
On Sunday I woke up just full of spunk and drawn to the woods. I approached Jody about a hike in the woods. As is usually the case he was up to it.
We nabbed Saige and Maya Rae and off we went. (after the big night of dancing the teens were sound asleep till noon+)
We had a nice long romp. I like this time of year when things are (thinking about) transitioning. A little ice, a little snow, a little mud.
The girls were excited for the romp.
Saige found endless joy in twisting cat tails apart and making the fuzzys fly every where.....including all over her hat and body and eyes!
We took a new path and found that it ended on a different road then where we had parked so we decided to take a few roads back around rather than retrace our hiking path. 
Good walk. The girls were cold and hungry by the end so home we went to make hot soup.
Jenna's Reception
On Saturday Feb 21 my cousin Jenna had her wedding reception party. She had been married to her long time boy friend, Scott Ditzel in December in Cancune.
The entire family got dolled up and went.
We had a great time visiting and dancing.
It really was a blast!
Maya Rae couldn't get enough of the dancing. She was the first on on the floor.
We all let down our guard and danced and danced. I have never seen Jody fast dance.
I guess it just took his daughter to get him out on the floor. :)

Vayda and I had a fun 'slow' dance and Maya loved cutting in on Daddy and I.
Here are all the kids....clean at all the same time!



Of course the girls in the family were concerned about our new clothes ;) so we took pictures to show um off. 
Maya Rae turns 9 !
For her party she had a few girls over. They made single serving pizzas.
They got their faces painted (thank you Vayda!)Maya wanted pink cheeks and blue eye swirleys.
Kimberly was a cat.
Alisabeth wanted a penguin.
Alexandra got a couple of little rat faces on her cheek. Here shes giving Milton a big squeeze.
After time playing dress up, bouncing on the rebounder, making pizzas and getting their faces done...they did the cake thing.
Maya had decorated her own cake for the event.
The girls brought her a really cool gift!
Say Cheese!
In the evening when Daddy was home from work and Ben was back from visiting his mother, we did it all again. We had dinner, cake and gifts.
We gave her a bunch of stuff including a sewing kit, a small sewing machine, a new crochet needle....
A bunch of new clothes and her new favorites...crocks.... for spring. And....
Several new little doobly do toys to make her smile. A weekend with Heather
Over Valentines weekend, my friend Heather, came to visit just for the heck of it. We had a great time. She left her kids at home and I farmed out most of the kids to sleep overs etc. Jody worked. She and I just hung out the first night and watched a Tony Robbins video. Sat was Valentines day. We had to stay home all day to finish up my store closing sale. That in itself was fun. In the evening we got all dolled up (Ben took our picture) and went visiting. First we stopped in to see my mom but she wasn't home. We left flowers and cookies for her birthday and Valentines. Then we popped in on my X sister in law. I gave her a T-shirt and book for her birthday and cookies for Valentines. Then it was to my brother's. I gave him a paper bag stamped with kisses and hearts. In the bag where two T-bone steaks...nice man gift ;) We had a nice little visit. We chatted and played with my nephew for a bit. After all that we headed to Victor to an Indian restaurant. We enjoyed good food (very new to me) and endured..."Josh"...the icky 24 yr old boy who thought we were all that and a bag-a-chips! Ick. "Josh" invited us back to his place to play a few rounds of 'beer pong'...whatever the heck THAT is?!?! Ick. I was like 'Josh-dude- I have raise kids older than you!' Later "Josh" complained that his Valentines day was going badly because his girl friend was yelling at him :( I said, "Hey Josh, do you suppose your girl friend is freakin out because you keep inviting old ladies back to your place to play beer pong?" He was like..."Uhhhh, yeah, maybe"Closing the Store- the big sale!
Since the sale day I have had several people come by appointment. After I get back from Tony Robbins in March I am going to box up the rest of the stuff and sell random lots on Ebay until its gone. Any additional $ I bring in will go toward our Pilgrimage to Haifa Israel fund.Web site closed down
Well its a new era- thats for certain!
When 9/11 happened I was in my 4th year of day care in my home. On that very day I realised life was too short to be tortured and miserable so I gave notice and quit on the followingJanuary 1.
Shortly after that I opened my rubber stamp company. At the time it was called "Brilliant Stars Stamps and Stuff". After several months of learning how to build a web site with images that would open and make fliers and how to make stamps...I renamed it "Norton Designs". I met a nice older man in Ithaca who kindly taught me how to make rubber stamps. He sold me a vulcaniser and hooked me up with all of his suppliers.
After a fun weekend of selling at a rubber stamp expo my friend, Heather, joined me in the business and we called it, "Pretty In Ink". My step daughter, Lynde, came up with that name. I rebuilt the web site in all pink and green and came up with a great logo.
Over the years I made 1000's of custom stamps, sold 1000's of stamps on Ebay, created my own line over 2000 art stamps using my own art. I spent 100's of hours (for real) building and rebuilding my web site. The site always got rave reviews! It was pretty and girly, easy to navigate and had 100's of card samples. About 3 yrs ago I realised yet another part of the dream and opened a physical store front in my home. That was great fun!
Though the business was a lot of fun it was also an immense amount of work! Most of my work hours have been after my kids go to sleep at 9 pm and go on till 3 or 4 am. Then its up to home-school the kids. This Thanksgiving weekend I woke up and knew it was "a new era". I didn't know why. I just knew it was. (you can read more about what came of that on my body blog... http://bodyenlightenment.blogspot.com ) So- several weeks ago I finally got the guts to say I was done with the business. It took a lot of emotional strength to say 'I didn't have a money making job'. I took the big step and disconnected my web site. 100's...even a 1000 + hrs of work all deleted! Wow! What an enormous step. Wednesday, February 04, 2009
Visiting Nicholas
On Sunday Maya Rae and I went to Seneca Falls to visit my brothers son, Nick.
While Greg and I chatted, Maya played with Nick. Toss the ball, build a train track, hide in the tent, run and tickle.....
Greg ran out to do some errands and Maya and I played with Nick. Play dough, duplo blocks, snack time, and 3 stories.....then more run and tickle.
When Greg got back and got Nick ready to go Maya was wiped right out. It was a great play date with the little man!Vayda goes global
Baking Night
Saige wanted to bring over her recipe book and bake a cake.
I said- Yup. K.
She supplied the book (and the complicated recipe) and I supplied all of the ingredients.The girlies supplied the labor and MESS. LOL
They did it all on their own and in the end had a really nice, yummy cake.Thursday, January 22, 2009
Dancin up a storm
Last Friday Saige missed the school bus and came over to see if Maya had time to play. It was right after breakfast so no one was doing school work quite yet. I was working out on the rebounder and a great song came on the CD. All of the sudden, all four kids pour out of the woodwork and start dancin up a storm! They were too cute so I grabbed the camera.Things are spinning out of control!
I scooped Maya Rae up and got her onto my back.
Then I took off spinning....and spinning.....and well.....
That's enough spinning!!!!
Maya thought this was AWESOME but mom could only take so much without either barfin or at least falling on my very dizzy face! ;)A play day with Danny
Monday was Martin Luther King Jr's Bday....
Because all of the kids had the day off my Aunt and I made arrangements for Danny to come over and play with us. Danny is my cousin and the girls 2nd cousin. Though these two are from two generations Maya Rae and Danny are just 6 mo apart. I think that's cool.

At lunch Danny was so pleased with my veggy pasta and the cookies Elanee made that he said, "You people are so good at the making stuff from scratch thing!" LOL. Well thanky! (just for the record...his moms an awesome cook)
Maya's Noble Steed
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We are all very proud of Ben's accomplishment.








Isnt this critter awesome ?!?! Its even got an utter and a cowbell.



























The park was soooooo pretty.








Often times Vayda goes in with her to use the computer and suck up some YouTube time.

Maya and Saige tore outa there! Jody and I hardly saw them for an hour. We got lots of walk and talk time in.



Heather and her daughter Madison posing for a quick pic.
Vayda had an India party this year. She turned 15! Can you believe that?!?!


















